Pornography: An Epidemic on Social Media

Were you aware that on Twitter, pornographers following account users are posting lewd and graphic images? I most recently reported four separate Twitter accounts which I thought violated the Terms of Agreement at Twitter. Unfortunately, four days later as of the writing of this article, Twitter has only acknowledged the reporting of these accounts but has done nothing to take them down. Every pornographer that follows me on Twitter, I block because one, I do not want them contacting my own followers; and two, these pornographers really do not actually look at my content because their posts are computer generated.

What concerns me the most about many social media platforms is their lack of taking action against pornographers. Were you aware that the pornographers within the United States are the largest producer of pornography in the world? Parents, your children are on social media. You may think that a particular social media platform is an innocent place for your children to post, but every type of sexual perversion you can imagine is out on these platforms following your kids. There are sexual predators trying to either lure your children to have sex with them or hook them on pornography. We have not even scratched the surface of how sexual predators lure your innocent children from your homes to meet up and before you know it, the kids have been abducted.

According to a study conducted by Proven Men Ministries, in 2014, 1000 adults across the nation took a survey about sexual behavior. Out of that survey, 388 were self-identified Christian men.  “Out of this segment, 97% of these Christian men admitted to viewing pornography. 80% of these men do not have or use a filter to block internet pornography off computers or cell phones. 78% of these men viewed porn before 16 years of age. 28% viewed porn before 12 years old. 55% of married men view pornography at least once a month. 32% between the ages of 18-30 think they are addicted to porn. Another 12% did not know for sure if they were addicted to porn. Not only can pornography be addictive, but it can lead to extra-marital affairs, which in turn will most likely lead to divorce.” See the following link for the full report: https://www.provenmen.org/pornography-survey-statistics-2014/

The statistics mentioned are just a few of the problems caused by pornographers. Parents, I am pleading with you. If you truly love your children, buy filters for computers that block pornography and do not buy your children smart phones as you cannot regulate what they view on most smart phones. Discuss sex with your children and talk about the consequences of porn addictions and premarital sex. If you would not give your child a loaded handgun to play with, why would you give them a smartphone so that all this evil can be downloaded into their phones and destroy their innocence and life? Once they have viewed these lewd and graphic images, they will not be able to forget them.

What does the Bible say about sexual immorality, adultery, and temptation?

Sexual Immorality:

1 Corinthians 6:9, “Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality.”

1 Corinthians 6:13, “Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach for food”—and God will destroy both one and the other. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.”

1 Peter 2:11, “Beloved, I urge you as sojourners and exiles to abstain from the passions of the flesh, which wage war against your soul.”

2 Timothy 2:22, “So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.”

Colossians 3:5, “Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.”

Ephesians 5:3, “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.

Galatians 5:19, “Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality.”

Temptation:

1 Corinthians 10:13, “No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.”

1 John 2:16, “For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world.”

Job 31:1, “I made a covenant with my eyes, not to look lustfully at a young woman.”

James 1:14-15, “But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.”

Psalm 119:37, “Turn my eyes from looking at worthless things; and give me life in your ways.”

Adultery:

Exodus 20:14, “You shall not commit adultery.”

Hebrews 13:4, “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.”

Matthew 5:28, “But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

Matthew 5:27-28, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

Ephesian 5:11-12, “Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret.”

Consequences:

Galatians 5:19-21, “The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.”

1 Corinthians 6:18-20, “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So, glorify God in your body.”

1 John 3: 4-10, “Everyone who sins breaks the law; in fact, sin is lawlessness. But you know that he appeared so that he might take away our sins. And in him is no sin. No one who lives in him keeps on sinning. No one who continues to sin has either seen him or known him.

Dear children, do not let anyone lead you astray. The one who does what is right is righteous, just as he is righteous. The one who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil’s work.  No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God’s seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God.  This is how we know who the children of God are and who the children of the devil are: Anyone who does not do what is right is not God’s child, nor is anyone who does not love their brother and sister.”

Proverbs 7:21-27, “With persuasive words she led him astray; she seduced him with her smooth talk. All at once he followed her like an ox going to the slaughter, like a deer stepping into a noose till an arrow pierces his liver, like a bird darting into a snare, little knowing it will cost him his life.  Now then, my sons, listen to me; pay attention to what I say. Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray into her paths. Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng. Her house is a highway to the grave, leading down to the chambers of death.”

Psalm 119:9-10, “How can a young man keep his way pure? By guarding it according to your word. With my whole heart, I seek you; let me not wander from your commandments!”

Philippians 4:8, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”

Conclusion

Parents, if you love your children, protect them from the evils that lurk across the internet. Pornography can steal the innocence of your children. Adults, viewing pornography can cause a division in your fellowship with God. I urge you to repent from your sins immediately and stop looking at pornography. Please don’t allow pornography to destroy your life as well as the life of your wife and children. Pornography is a tool of Satan to cause division between you and God. If you are addicted to porn, I urge you to seek counseling immediately. Finally, this is for the women and men who work in the porn business. Please repent from your sin and come to Jesus and ask forgiveness. Then never go back to work in this industry. This industry is destroying lives and families. Stop allowing Satan to use your bodies and images to destroy your life as well as other people’s lives. I pray that God will change hearts and people will repent from their wicked ways. You will never find fulfillment in participating in porn, whether you are in the sex trades or if you are viewing it. It will only lead you to hell! Only faith in Jesus Christ can change your lives and give you forgiveness, love, satisfaction, and peace.

References:

Proven Men Porn Survey (conducted by Barna Group), located at https://www.provenmen.org/2014PornSurvey/

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Pornography Addiction: There is Hope

You see, no one really knows how pornography will affect them until they start to view it. Some people can become addicted because they are basically looking for the next sexual fulfillment. When they achieve that through masturbation…

Overnight on Twitter, I was followed by three pornographers. As a rule, I do not allow pornographers to follow me on Twitter or any other social media. I can hear what you are about to say next? “But you are in ministry! You should allow them so that they will hear the Word of God.” The facts are that these accounts are not real people but the pornographers themselves. These accounts most likely contain malicious viruses that are meant to steal your identity and information. Not only that, but delving into pornography can become an addiction for both men and women. Viewing it can destroy marital relationships and you could become estranged from your family. If you view it, you in fact are supporting sexual slavery and human trafficking.

According to www.ProvenMan.org, “approximately two thirds (64%) of U.S. men view pornography at least monthly.”[1] Pornography (Porn) addictions is known as a process addiction which can affect an individual in a negative way. According to www.RecoveryConnection.com, “A general definition of any addiction is behavior repeated over and over again despite negative consequences to oneself or others. … Pornography addiction, a type of process addiction, is predicated upon an ever-growing need to see sexually explicit images. … Statistics indicate that a large percentage of those who suffer from a pornographic addiction, including internet porn addiction, will suffer the loss of a marriage and career. Similar to what occurs in drug and alcohol addiction, neurochemical changes occur in the brain which contributes to the maintenance of the pornography addiction.”[2]

The signs and symptoms can be found on the Recovery Connection website. According to the website, the consequences of porn addiction include destruction of intimate relationships, self- shame and guilt, loss of a career, interference of work or school, financial problems, promiscuity which can lead to sexual encounters with others and sexually transmitted diseases.[3]

On a spiritual level, addiction and the mere viewing of porn can lead to a separation of a full relationship with God. According to www.ProvenMen.org, “There are three ways that porn will affect your relationship with God. 1. Unrepentance prevents your spiritual growth. 2. Secret sin subverts God’s will. 3. Lordship requires surrendering fully to God.”[4] According to Peter in The Didache, I.4, “Abstain from carnal and bodily lusts,” II.2, “…Thou shalt not commit adultery, sodomy, and fornication,” III.3, “…be not lustful, for lust leads to fornication and adultery.”[5] The Didache were the teaching of the Twelve Apostles and referenced Peter’s teaching in God’s Word.

I have known men as well as women who were addicted to porn. Their lives were rooted in sexual deviant behavior in which caused broken relationships, divorce, and even attempted suicide. They were so hooked on viewing sexual images, that they continued down a path of destruction to the next thrill and persuasion. One such person was an acquaintance of mine who was in law enforcement. This guy was also a photographer. He started out photographing strippers and was in fact producing pornographic images. He ultimately lost his job as a police officer, his wife divorced him, and he ended up marrying an exotic dancer. He became estranged from his faith in God and he ended up becoming an alcoholic because his world fell apart.

You see, no one really knows how pornography will affect them until they start to view it. Some people can become addicted because they are basically looking for the next sexual fulfillment. When they achieve that through masturbation, then many times they may become depressed because the act of masturbating to a sexual image has stolen the joy of a true relationship with their spouse. Over time, what may have aroused them before may no longer arouse them. Their next step may be to view more deviant images or even act out a fantasy.

Pornography is a tool of Satan. The facts are that Satan will use whatever he can to destroy lives, deceive Followers of Christ, tear apart families, and tear down and obliterate martial relationships. Satan is a liar and a deceiver. We live in a world where what was once considered deviant behavior is now normal according to the world’s standards. We live in a world where God and Jesus Christ is not loved and worshipped, but where everything should be accepted because after all, we don’t want to offend anyone. This last statement is another lie from the evil one. Porn should be considered vile and evil because it defiles marriage and invites evil into your life.

What does the Word of God say about this?

Matthew 5:28, “But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

2 Timothy 2:22, “So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.”

1 John 2:16, “For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world.”

Proverbs 6:25, “Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes.”

Galatians 5:16, “So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.”

Romans 8:6, “The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace.”

James 1:14-15, “but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.”

Romans 12:1-2, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

Pornography is a tool authored and used by the evil one, the prince of this world. There is hope. You must take a step of faith to ask God to forgive you of this sin. Once you have done that, then you need to take a second step. I would encourage you to reach out to www.ProvenMen.org for help. Not only can they help you but they will partner with you in overcoming this addiction. God uses Christian men and women to help others to not only come to Christ but overcome their sexual addictions. Please don’t allow pornography to rule your life. Make a change today.

If you want to pray and ask Jesus into your life and heart, just stop right now and pray this prayer:

Dear Jesus, I am a sinner. I am not worthy of you. Lord Jesus, I want you to come into my life and into my heart. Please forgive me of my sinfulness against you and my Heavenly Father. I ask you to come into my life and forgive me. In Jesus name, Amen.

References:

[1] www.ProvenMen.org

[2] RecoveryConnection.com, https://www.recoveryconnection.com/addiction-resources/other-addictions/pornography/, retrieved February 15, 2019.

[3] RecoveryConnection.com.

[4] ProvenMen.org, https://www.provenmen.org/pornography-affect-relationship-god/.

[5] The Didache, http://www.thedidache.com/

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